Darogle,
Very interesting all of your ideals.
I travel alot with business, so communication is at a minimum except when I am home on weekends.
I don't want to make a issue about it with her, been together 17 yrs., just seems things are changing now. There is not much of a love life now when I am at home, and if so, I seem to always been the one trying to start things up, guess that is where I had noticed the panties and was curious. As Osuche said, in some ladies I think that is more common than others, and with her, I hadn't really paid any attention to it before.
Was kinda wanting to know if any others had been through it before and what they may have noticed within their relationships before the BOMB dropped.

TIA