You can still be a nice guy and go after what you want. You don't have to be sad-sacks about it because you haven't been able to assert yourself in any given situation.

There is a difference between being a nice guy and an introvert. Quit being a victim!!! Decide what you want and go get it!!!

Speaking for myself, I like the nice guy, but I don't like the nice guy who doesn't have any balls....

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