Good lord, I thought I was the only one to go through something like that! My ex wife had all the same attitudes and behaviours. I can sympathize with all that you have said. We divorced after eight years. I did not stay in the same house, but have committed myself to staying in the same town, so that I can be close to my daughter. My ex and I are freindly but far from freinds. I make it a point to stay amicable for my daughter's sake. I, like you, am ready to move on, but have yet to find someone. I am glad to here that things are looking up for you. You certainly deserve the best! Best of luck!