OK...I am going to add my own personal spin here.

I DO like nice guys...but just because you're a nice guy doesn't mean you have to be a wallflower. I like men who show me that they are interested in me -- in a nice way (of course).

Just like advertising, there is too much mental stimulation out ther for most average people. Thus, it takes some gumption and imagination to catch my interest and attention. However, after you get it...you are evaluated on whether you are a "nice guy" with compatible interests. If oyu are, you're in.

However...it starts with a little bit of forwardness...

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney