Welcum to Pixies SexualSpree! NOw sit back and read all of this......since you asked! *hugs*

I agree with you GG.......I don't think this is what he WANTED to hear! Otherwise he'd have been back by now to thank us for "giving him permission" to feel good about what he seems to think is wrong (that is, if we had all collectively said.......Do it hun......Do what you want!).

Frankly, I've never entered a debate or discussion without at least trying to see the other side of things (call me your typical devil's advocate).....so here's my 2 cents!

I was 14 when I lost my virginity! Pretty scary thought, huh? I know....SexualSpree says he has NO intentions of taking his S/O's virginity......but if he were truthful......he'd have said he wants her and he wants her bad!

Well, in my personal situation, I was an extremely mature 14y/o....(I can hear all you parents out there mumbling.....yeah, yeah....they all think that!) because of certain situations in my life that made me "grow up" and face the world far sooner than most teens should (caring for a family that a father had given up on and a mother who had mental breakdowns). I was so much wiser in the ways of "life" than most of my friends........and yet I seemed to cling to the feeling of wanting to "get away from it all".

OK....I'll admit it.....I didn't know jack shit about sex when I was 14......but I wanted to experience every part of life.......and I was damn head strong to give it a go! In my personal situation, I didn't know from one day to the next if I'd be alive to see the next day (long, long story...I might share someday)! I'm a very practical person at heart and so I took the leap at this very early age (figuring I ain't dying a virgin).........and to be honest I don't regret it but I don't recommend it either!

In retrospect, I could have waited........but hindsight seems to be my forte......not insight! If everyone of you would be honest here.......at the raw age of 14, your sexual awareness was climbing out of your shorts!

Here's the bottom line SexualSpree........

In the moral sense..........it's wrong. In the grand scheme of things........it isn't one of the worst things that has ever happened on this planet! If you feel bad about it.......keep a nice friend and find someone your own age (or at least of legal age). If you can sleep at night without worry and you aren't hurting anyone (ie:her, her parents....etc) and you truly can hold out for her till she is ready........than go for it! Life is short and who the fuck are we to judge!

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