I have very close female friends and relatives, along w/myself, who most definitely want and are looking for nice guys. There has to be some kind of physical attraction between you and another person, I think, but I would say that no matter how great the outside of the package, we are not interested if, when that cover is peeled away, a nice guy isn't underneath.

I understand just how frustrating it is; you nice guys are saying you can't find women who want you; we nice women are saying that we can't find any nice guys who want more than just a roll in the hay. We love sex just as much as the next person--maybe even more (smile)--but we want more than just a sexual relationship; we want a deeper relationship in which all of our love and caring can come into play--giving and receiving. PLENTY of us don't give a damn if a guy doesn't look like Mr. Universe and isn't rich like Bill Gates. And we DO want someone who'll treat us well, not like shit.

Be sure you're not just looking at those "gorgeous" types or you may miss some real gems. However, if you ARE willing to give those of us w/less than perfect covers a chance, I know that we're often out of reach due to distance, age gaps, etc. I realize it's darned frustrating at times.

I sure hope you will keep trying, Prophet Reality, because there truly are plenty of us "nice females" out here who are looking hard for someone just like you.

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