I was raised in a goal oriented tradition and I think I resented having to go by set rules.....even if I was the one who set them. Therefore, I feel this is the reason I NEVER (to this day) figured out what I want to be when I grow up! It's been a "cut off my nose to spite my face" situation for me......and so NOW.......FINALLY.....I have come to grips with the fact that Mom was actually trying to help me instead of make me conform..........and so, yes............I try, again, to set goals for myself!

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Minds are like parachutes. They only work when they are open.

~Thomas Dewar~