I will drink whatever gets my wife all silly and goofy. The current favorite is a buttery nipple, consisting of one part baileys floated on three parts of buttershots.

Hint: Using an iced tea glass and lots of ice cubes cuts down on the trips to the bar!

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.