Be sure you're romancing each other outside of the bedroom, too. Giving each other attention, doing things or saying things that say I love you outside of the bedroom, can have quite an impact in the bedroom. Maybe something as simple as being sure you do your fair share of chores at home or do something extra for her when she's had a rough day will translate over into the bedroom in no time. Or tell her way ahead of time how much you're looking forward to making love that night or the next day...mention some of the things you want to do to her...in other words, let the anticipation build up so that you're both about ready to explode when you hit those sheets. Then throw in all the suggestions everyone's been making about changes or additions IN the bedroom as well.

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