Speaking as a young heifer (I'm 21, if anyone's wondering), I'd have to say that my brief time here at Pixies has proven true two things that I've hoped for a long time...

The stereotype, of course, when you're this age, is that people stop having sex or feeling sexy about themselves as soon as middle age approaches. I kind of hoped that it wasn't true, because really, sex is a relatively new discovery for me (I "did it" for the first time just before I turned 20) and I'm only starting to get good at it! Not that my boyfriend ever complained, mind you, but let's just say that my techniques have improved a hundredfold since we started. And I'm sure there's still plenty of room for refinement and exploration... If I'm just getting good now, I sure hope I've got lots of years left to practise and to enjoy!

The other thing this place has proven to me is that men can grow up! With the important exception of my wonderful boyfriend and a few other guys I know, most of the men of my age (or should I say boys) are totally immature about sex. It's all about conquest and claiming victory, and getting themselves off. I'm sorry, but I'm not a trophy to be claimed, and a 'pimp limp' swagger is just not sexy! I love Pixies because no one here has ever treated me that way, and you men are able to be sexy without being a**holes. Most of all, you all seem to really enjoy bringing pleasure to women, which is an incredibly welcome change to the frat-boy wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am mentality that seems to run so rampant on campus here. To me, a sexy man is one who enjoys his body and wants to make me enjoy mine --- and Pixies guys seem to be universally sexy in that regard! Yes, you can all joke around, but when it comes down to it, you're all --- dare I use the word? --- sensitive!

Of course, the Pixies women are also wonderful, and it's always encouraging to see other 'regular' people enjoying their sexuality --- regardless of their ages. I'm so glad that you're all willing to welcome me into your close-knit family here!

--- sweetstuff

p.s. I'm pleased to say that even the guys of my own age that I've met here have been of the sensitive variety, in that they are thoughtful about a woman's needs and desires...