Big is nice...but I don't interview my male friends by asking them their penis size. It's the whole package that counts...and take care not to obsess about the ex too much -- lest you begin to lose your focus in other areas.

As you like her for who she is -- I'm guessing oyu're not comparing her weight or breast size to your exs -- allow her to show you the same courtesy.

Good luck and lighten up!

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney