I can only have an orgasm from fellatio if my wife is approaching my penis from below. Either kneeling while I stand or sit, or more frequently, if I'm laying on my back and she's laying between my legs. With that angle, she can concentrate more on the underside of my penis. Other's feel ok, but I can't have an orgasm with them.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.