I grew up in a traditional Catholic household and we simply did not talk about sex. As I've gotten older...and wiser...I've realized that it's still not proper to talk about sex with most of my friends. I find that most (almost all) of my friends are not as open-minded as I am on the subject, so I just don't bring it up.

Of course I *do* live in the midwest...and I do spend most of my time with conservative professionals...so I've probably stacked the deck against myself.

Regardless, Pixies has given me a forum to discuss my strange thoughts and to understand the likes/tastes of others. I've picked up a few tips, but mostly I just enjoy having a forum where I can say what I want.

As for the multi-generational thing...I haven't suddenly been surprised that older (and younger!) folks have the same thoughts/needs/questions that I do...but it has been nice getting the more mature perspective at times.

I am still hoping that you old dogs can teach this young pup some new tricks...

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney