Pinkbutton: LISTEN to these people when they say don't meet at your house. I know you've been talking to him for a while and you know each other well, but there are a lot of strange people out there, and your safety has to be your number one priority. You should meet in a public place with lots of other people around and only when you feel completely comfortable that he's ok, should you consider moving into a more private environment. If he is an honest, responsible and caring guy, he will understand. If he doesn't understand, DON'T MEET HIM! Please. This is important.

Also, with regard to your meeting the friend, have you talked through every possible eventuality with him and how each one would make you feel? Like what would happen if you want to and he doesn't, if he wants to and you don't, if you both meet and neither of you don't (because then you'll no longer have your exciting online chemistry either) or what will happen if you do and one of your falls in love, or if you do and one of you decides you don't want to do it again...... blah blah blah....the list is endless, but before I met Fussy we talked about every single possibility.

Likewise, you need to do the same thing with Pudsey. I have to admit that the one thing I've learnt about guys is that they say they'll be fine with something and then they discover they aren't fine with it afterwards (e.g. I once had to do a stage kiss and my b/f toldme it would be no problem for him, and then when it came to it he couldn't handle it at all).

I'm not going to tell you what to do - that's your choice, but just make sure you've done as much preparation as possible before you go ahead with this. It's a terrifying this as it is meeting someone you're close to online, let alone with the added complications of husbands and family etc.


Most of all though: be safe (whether you're in bed or not).

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