Fairy-Bird, if I may. My personal opinion about those name callers is that most are either wishing they had the courage to do the same thing or scared of it and they call you names to justify to themselves their not going for it. Your words seem to indicate you're pretty self-assured and know what you're doing so go ahead and enjoy life. Just know there's always some people who condemn anything they either don't understand or fear. It bites but that's just human nature. Best wishes to you Hon.

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