Exactly as fzzy said.... dating 2 guys at the same time does not a slut make!!

As long as you are open and honest with all involved, what should it matter what others think or label you as??? I know that it is human nature to want to please and follow the standards that "society" sets for us..... and it hurts all the same that people are going to judge you for what you do/don't do, but............. be confident in who you are and what you want.

As long as you are happy, and it isn't hurting the other 2 men in your life - as they are totally accepting of what is going on.... go for it. There is nothing wrong with what you are doing...

It is just closed minded people who judge behaviors based on mis-information....and sometimes it is too bad that those kinds of people have a tendancy to set standards..... it is time for someone to break them...

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