Thank you ALL...the reassurance really does help. SOmetimes I've felt very frusterated with myself.

BlueSwede -- I will let you know if I find a magic cure!

Loulabelle -- thanks for your accurate and sensitive post. I really appreciate your time!

Thanks to all...you're making me feel very at home in Pixies!

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney