Osuche first of all, I'm weak at the knees of the idea of my man coming 3-5 times in a session LOL (in our bed, it's he who can experience difficulties not me)

Secondly, I've found the best way to ensure that I come faster, is to be totally turned on before he goes anywhere near my pussy. I have a VERY sensitive clit and even alone, often find myself saying 'ouch' more than I'm saying 'ahhhhh' and I find that touching my clit too early in the proceedings will make me take longer to get off than if I'm really turned on before it gets stimulated.

I've also found that what I miss during oral is the opportunity for my partner to talk dirty to me, and without that kind of mental stimulation to keep my mind focussed on sex, I tend to go off track a little. This in turn makes me take longer to cum. I've found the solution is to fantasise as I do during masturbation (usually just rerunning through a story I've read here, or a porn scene I've watched which I particularly like).

The worst thing about taking a long time to cum is definitely feeling like your partner is bored or tired, and the best solution I can think of to this problem is to talk to your partner about your concerns and let him know that your worrying about him can sometimes delay your orgasm even more. I'm sure that he'll reassure you that he loves to go down on you and enjoys the anticipation of waiting for that special moment and that you shouldn't worry about clock watching. You can always suggest that if his tongue gets tired, you can always take over for a little bit and allow him to watch. Hell, even suggest he takes pictures if that is a turn on to you both. And most of all, remember, he's a grown man and he's not being held at gun point to pleasure you. If he wants to stop, he can, at any time, so if he isn't stopping that's because he doesn't want to.


Hope this goes some way to helping. Sorry about the "War and Peace" length reply.

Lou
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