Belial.....

FIRST (and most importantly) HUGS x 1000.

Second... as mentioned above.. concentrate on the things that you find good about yourself.. I have absolutely no doubt in my mind that within you there are many wonderful qualities.

Third... give yourself a break... don't put sooo much pressure on yourself to find a mate.... Have fun... go out.. enjoy life.. and when you do those things... she will cross your path

HUGS