Thanks everyone for your responses, *hugs*
And welcome back, Lovediva

I'll try and be a little more specific.

I think I have difficulty relating to girls. I never had one as a friend (but not a girlfriend) until I was about 19. In my course, the male to female ratio is something like 24:1, and without a job or other regular source of income I don't get out much. Hence, I have little to no idea how to meet and then talk to females except as regular friends (and even then I'm not too good). Most attempts have been abortive and utter failures. My interests don't tend to be ones shared by girls. Based on tests, my Meyer-Briggs personality type is INTJ, if that means anything to anyone.

I don't like my face. It seems very..I don't know exactly, but it seems different to other guys' faces in ways that look odd/bad/strange/etc. I've never liked it, I'm pretty sure that ever since I was five years old I've insisted when looking at photos of myself that I look like an idiot.

I don't like my hair. Sorry, no, I don't like my hair loss. I'm losing it around 10 years ahead of schedule, and I realise that I could get it replaced, but I'm not sure I want to bother, and I wouldn't have the money anyway.

I'm lazy academically, which I don't like. I guess I end up trying to spend my time trying to feel better (which usually means wrapping myself up in non-academic things) which then makes me feel worse because I fall behind. I don't care that much about my marks, but rather what I actually learn, and I don't seem to learn too much.

That's all I can think of for now, sorry for the long whine.