Yeah money isn't all that's cracked up to be, as long as you have enough to survive on.

I'd rather have the compatibility with personality, intellect, hobbies and pursuits and sexuality. Otherwise no matter how much of any of the rest you have, those fundamental differences are going to lead to nothing but squabbling.
And fitting any kind of looks/fashion mold is silly - on its own - if you have your health, why obey the dictates of whatever Hollywood or Madison Ave. are trying to push onto people for the moment?