Any suggestions on how to speed up having an orgasm? I'm mostly looking to hear from the ladies...

My problem is that I have an **extremely** long fuse -- typically @30 minutes (or longer). It's not my partner's technique -- I've always been this way, with all my partners. It takes 30-40 minutes for oral to generate climax and at least 25 for me to climax whilst masturbating.

Needless to say, this annoying trait seems to intimidate the men in my life just a little bit. Is something wrong with me? Any tips/tricks that might speed up the process? Any ideas???

Thanks!

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