Giving, definately on my knees in front of him. Whether he's standing or sitting doesn't bother me much. Sitting may provide the better view, but standing means I can occasionally grab his ass and pull him towards me.

Getting, yes please. Any position. Not picky....although I have been known to lose balance at awkward moments. If I have to choose, gosh, probably on my back, legs spread Very wide, with a small pile of pillows under my hips. Of course...that's another favorite giving position...so I may be confusing things. And so long as I'm wishing...this morning I'd add a second person to nibble on my nipples, greedy little girl that I am.

Re: 69....I thought I was an oddball who didn't get the point when I first tried it. I think the phrase "hey, knock it off, I'm busy over here" went through my mind at one point. Then I heard a great piece of advice that made it much more fun. It's not gonna be a chance to demonstrate great technique, control, or creativity. Stick to the absolute basics (suck, lick, no biting) and enjoy the ride. All of a sudden it graduated from foreplay to fireworks. And it's lovely to be told that you can get someone off just by moaning down his dick ;-).