First off ... you are loved and you are loveable!!! Just because there are silly men who don't YET recognize it, doesn't mean it's not true!!! ...

Next time you ask a man for dinner ... make sure you get the commitment at the time you ask ... if he's smart, he'll move heaven and earth (let alone something that might be scheduled on his calendar that he forgot) to spend the time with you ... if he's not YET enlightened, let it go ... the best revenge is living your life fully ... with or without a man ... I think you do that quite well!!!

I understand it gets lonely sometimes and that you miss the pleasure of romance and a man's arms around you ... but, there is a man out there eminently suited to you ... it is my hope that you two find each other soon ... until then, just keep letting yourself know that you are loved ... by your son, by friends and very much so here at Pixies!!!!