It wasn't a matter of "eew, I don't want to talk about this," but more so the element of surprise. I *do* understand that he came to me about this because my parents are going to shut him down and not answer his questions, but I am still unsure of what I *should* be telling him when he does ask the Q's. At his age, I certainly won't be giving TOO intimate of details about my own sex life, but I'm happy to act as a resource about women or direct him to information that is out of my realm of knowledge. I'm sure he does know basics, as he's had sex ed in school and he has been caught several times with porn on his PC and my mother found a Playboy (given to him by a friend) under his bed when he was in 8th grade. I also know that I don't want to be encouraging him to have sex at this age, but I do hope he would tell me or ask out my advice on protection or whatever before he goes and does it.

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