My first partner was kind of into this, but she'd start on me orally and have me finish manually.

Another partner that was very much into pleasing me that way - I honestly can't remember if there was a certain 'way' we ended. And I don't remember my ex-fiancee having done this either.
After that, I've only been pleasured orally once, and she swallowed it all....
(and that was summer of 2000).

Now myself, I do enjoy going down on a woman, and I did have one kinda object to me kissing her if I was TOO wet after bringing her off (on my face), but I don't think she disliked it as such. A couple of them have quite liked it.

*shrug*