
07-03-2003, 06:21 AM
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Join Date: Jun 2002
Location: Melbourne, Australia
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Re: Need Advice
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Originally posted by souls_cry2000
He asked my opinion and I have yet to find a way to tell him that being with here isn't a good idea health wise but is it my place to say this even though he asked my opinion.
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As his friend it definitely is your place to say that - especially since he asked your opinion. As a friend you are obligated to give him what you feel is the best advice - and if that means you advise him to break off the relationship, then so be it, that's your advice. However, he is not obligated to follow your advice, it is ultimately a choice that can only be made by the two of them.
Having said that, I wouldn't ever counsel a friend of mine to break up with someone purely on the basis of a sexually tranmittable disease. It's discriminatory, and unfair. My advice would be as above - get him to see a doctor, find out as much as he can about her illness. That way he'll not only be able to protect himself, but he'll be able to support her and look after her.
Of course, if she is unwilling to follow rules that he may have after seeing a doctor - for example if she refuses to wear a condom during sex or soemthing, then he needs to dump her ass and get over her as quickly as possible.
My best wishes go out to them both,
CasperTG
<waving the Trout of Healing at her>
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