Well Dude, as I understand it 1 out of every 4 Americans live with it every day. Personally I'd say he needs to follow his heart and apply precautions. I know anything can happen in a relationship but let's face it, there are worse things to avoid than herpes. I happen to think possibly missing the love of your life would be worse. Just one guy's opinion.

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