Female sperm swim slower and live longer (after ejaculation).....so they take longer to get there, while conserving energy as they pass all the dead male sperm on their way.............. male sperm swim faster and use up all their energy darting past all the female sperm, but die sooner....which is one of the reasons that boys are concieved more than girls.......they get to an egg first if they don't die along the way!

Stand up and walk around after he cums in you. Make it harder for the male sperm to swim upstream! LOL!

And......IAKG said it best.........to prepare your body for pregnancy in 2005......start taking folic acid NOW! Find out the proper dosage and begin as soon as possible. Also CP.....you should see a doctor for a physical and instructions on the care of your body in preparation for pregnancy.

But first and foremost.......are you really ready for a child CP? It's truly none of my business, but from some of your recent threads it seems that you and your S/O might want to work on making your relationship the best it can be....with no lingering issues......before you bring a child into your life. Not that having a baby wouldn't make you happy but........ if you want a child because you think it will make the relationship better it might backfire if that's the ONLY reason you want a baby. It could bring about the exact opposite result than what you expect and hope for.

Please think this through and take my best wishes with you..........whatever you decide! And don't forget.......folic acid!

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