http://goodvibes.com/cgi-bin/sgsh01...373134&SKW=SD28

I haven't tried these myself, but I think the Nexus, Nexus Junior, and Feeldoe are a nice idea since you don't have to have a harness to use them and both people get some pleasure out of it. The only bad thing about them is if the "penetrator" would prefer to have a type that will give her vibrations on her clit at the same time she's working on her partner.

If you look to the left of that page, you'll notice the "Helpful Information" sites. You may want to read through some of that for some suggestions, too.

If you are referring to the actual strap-on part itself and not the dildo, I am not sure what to tell you except still to check out the Helpful Information" sections to see if they have any advice. All I know is that the one a past lover of mine used to use with me was a royal pain; it was always coming undone.

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