06-16-2003, 12:35 PM
|
 |
Bouncy Bunny
|
|
Join Date: Jan 2003
Location: Arizona
Posts: 1,252
|
|
|
CP~ You answered your own question. You said you hate it because youre afriad he will compare you to the girls in the pictures.
I know how you feel at times. I to get worried that my husband would comapre me to the gorgeous girls online or on TV. But I have learned to deal with my insecurities. And yes that is what they are- insecurities.
My husband tells me not to worry, that I am the most beautiful woman he has ever seen. Yes, there are other ladies more beautiful, trimmer, fuller, (you fill in the blank) out there. But he is with me isnt he? He chose me. He doesnt make a big deal about the other girls. Sure he likes to look, and so do I. There is nothing wrong with appreciating beautiful people. The issue arises when you or him make an issue out of it. This is my opinion only. I think that you and him need to work out some things that seem to be bothering you. I hope you and him are both open and honest with each other and you can tell him how you feel. And the same with him, as I am sure he has some frustrations about the whole thing as well.
|