Hmm this is strange, you say he used to do it all the time...what has made him change his behavior? When did you notice him stopping? Maybe it is something mental, or he is worried about something, but doesn't want to tell you...and the little devil pops onto my shoulder and even whispers...could he be cheating on you? I have heard that behavior change can be caused by infidelity as well, but I am not saying that is the definite reason for his change of heart.

I would think after three years, he would be VERY intune with your body, your emotions, your desires...I don't know what to say except try talking to him again, the reason of being tired, or not feeling like it does not wash at all. You would think he would give you an honest answer after being with you for so long...and if that is the true answer, that he doesn't feel like it...I honestly would let him go...after all, what other things will he not feel like doing in your relationship as the years go by? I don't know, maybe I am putting too much stock on this, just what I think and feel.

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