It must be very hard to be with someone you aren't physically attracted to. I know me personally, I could never be with someone I wasn't attracted to but what a person has inside means so much more to me these days. In the long run I would rather be with someone who has a good heart then great looks. I have to admit though being with someone who looks so good to me turns me on so much which makes for great lust and great sex that I want it all the time 24-7. I could never get bored with it. Maybe you can make some suggestions to your wife in a very subtle way about things that maybe she can do to make herself look more appealing to you. You must have seen something in her to make you marry her. One huge plus would be for her self esteem to be built up and by you helping her with that would make her feel so much better about herself that things could start to change for you in your way of thinking. I have met a lot of good looking people that had absolutely nothing going for them excepts their looks and they turned out to be nothing more then shallow, uninteresting, boring people. So then what do you have? Nothing that's what. Looks are only skin deep and I truly believe that now. I consider myself to be an attractive women, I have the classic blonde hair, blue eyes but I am always trying to improve on myself I think we all need to. I can't imagine being unattractive that must be very hard for people to deal with. We have to take what we are born with and make the absolute best of what we have and by doing that it means improving our personalities along with our physical looks. A nice personality goes a long way in making a person attractive.

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Missy