UPDATE:

I tried taking the advice about looking at the physical qualities that I do like. This has caused a suprisingly ... uh, good reaction . You see, I prefer her to stay clean shaven (pubes) as much as possible. Unfourtunately, she hasn't had enough time to stay smooth for an extended period of time in quite a while. She hasn't shaved for an unusually long time causing her to grow quite a bush. What I didn't realize is that the longer they are the more of turnoff for me. I decided to try the hands on approach and whenever I feel she needs a shave, I'll justget her to drop everything, take her into the bedroom and give her a very close shave. Of course, with me being that close to her pussy, by the time I'm finished, I'm so horny that I almost attack her. Before now, I hadn't realized how good she looks on all fours with her ass as high in the air as possible. That is one thing that turns me on more than anything else in this world. She has the best ass and pussy. With my new found enthusiasm she's seemed a little more receptive to anal play, that happens to be the 2nd hottest thing for me. With all this sex lately, our "romantic lovelife" has also blossomed. Because my intense love for her I can't help but to just make love (vs. fucking) with her. The other night we went slow, looking into each others eye's, purposely holding out until we couldn't stand it anymore. I guess it was because of the rekindled attraction I have for her that made it so different. It was like it was our first time, only better.

Needless to say, we are doing much better. We still have a lot to work out but we're well on our way.

Thanks for all the help