grumbleguts, i cam empathize with you mate, i am one of the unlucky ones, I was under the assumption me and my ex had the perfect life, and i guess looking back we did, except...communication we basically had none, and so she ended up leaving me for someone else without so much as a goodbye, i had to learn from mutual friends where she had gone, it has been a few years since that happened and i had basically resigned myself to a life alone because i did not feel i could ever trust anyone again. I have since met a very wonderful woman, whom i can share anything with and her me, when we have a problem we know the first thing we must do is communicate, we hope to be together permanently by the end of the year, I Love This woman with my whole being, and i never thought i would be happy again, but good things do happen to good people, we have both decided that we want to be happy together, I hope and pray you find the same my friend!! and hope that your pixies found romance blossoms the same as me and hellsbells!

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