If you're expecting orgasms like machinegun fire from penetrative sex alone, you'd be one of a very small band if successful.

You need a partner who's willing to put off their needs for a while to blow you through the ceiling and into next week.

women seem to be able to achieve multiple orgasm firstly through oral stimulation.

Don't give up after the first and don't do anything else to distract.

explore your body's ability to please you, and mostly, as diva said, relax.

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