Oh Eliza. Let me start by telling you that if the only sex I ever get for the rest of my life is anal, I will die a blissfull woman. In my situation, my bf wasn't to thrilled with the idea because he was more afraid of hurting me that I was of being hurt. It's a very intense dynamic, physically and emotionally. The only advice I would be able to give you is to talk to him about why you want to try this and why he might not want to try it. At least that way you both know where the other is coming from.

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