I am sorry I have bit my tongue as long as I can...I do not see maturity a measure of age, it is a measure of what you have learned in your travel through life regardless of the time it has taken. Yes, I am young, yes I have more growing to do...but as for a little background information I have raised myself from the age of fifteen, I do not feel that the fact that I have only been expanding my knowledge for twenty two years means that I have a lack of maturity or an immaturity for that matter. As for a stable relationship the only types I have had have been 2+ year type relationships I count them pretty stable, maybe as Silky says I am a prude or a simple "pussy" as he puts it...Thank you all for the interesting responses...I am sure I will come over these sexual blocks that I have placed upon myself...eventually

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"I blame my mother for my poor sex life. All she told me was, 'the man goes on top and the woman underneath'. For three years my husband and I slept on bunk beds."