We're expecting our first one next june, when i told my dad and asked if he felt like a grandpa(this isn't his first grandchild) he said at his age (78) everyone just asumes he's a grandpa anyway, their surprised to find out his baby girl is barely 21 and having a baby herself, but my inlaws are first time grandparents, omfg...these people are funny, they've allready been out shopping for every item we may need in the next five years! Is it allways like this or just with the first ones? My dad never really reacted with his other grandkids, but he says he's FINALLY ready to settle down and be a grandpa! How funny. Kids are so great, family is great too, and so are friends, like the ones here at pixies.