Done correctly it is all about trust, respect and love.... what some don't quite understand is that the Submissive accepts and allows the Domme/Dom to have a command over a situation. The Submissive gives of themselves through trust and love.. and the Domme/Dom gives of themselves as well.

Some are so worried about the "punishment" or "humiliation" aspect of that type of relationship that they don't see the beauty of it, nor do they understand that the Sub doesn't look at it that way.....

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A blessed thing it is for any man or woman to have a friend, one human soul whom we can trust utterly, who knows the best and worst of us, and who loves us in spite of all our faults.