Kali69 while it is true we men have fragile egos when it comes to our masculinity and being able to satisfy our women. Don’t be afraid to bring this up to him, sometimes we need you ladies to point out what it takes please you. It’s basic human development “If you don’t show someone something, you can not expect them to know it”. I am sure that it was a very pleasant site for him to hear you pleasuring yourself. Next time he leaves you unsatisfied, why don’t you let him watch you while you take care of yourself. If he has any brains he should be able to learn how and where to touch you. Plus this would have the effect of “getting him in the mood” again and as I am sure you know, us guys can usually last quit a bit longer the second time around. The bottom line here is both people have to show their partner what they enjoy. Anyone worth having as a significant other will have the patients and desire learn what and how to pleas the person they want to spend the rest of their life with

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Mind what poeple do not only what they say, for deeds will betray a lie.
Terry Goodkind, Wizzards Fifth Rule

There are two things a real man likes--danger and play;and he likes woman because she is the most dangerous of playthings.
Nietzsche


Monogamy does not have to mean Monotony