I agree with dm383s first paragraph.I'm not one to give advice on
a relationship,because everyone&every situation is different.I
HAVE been married to the same person for 38yrs.The BIGGEST thing in a relationship is respect for the other!Believe it or not,
sex isn't the ONLY thing.It is important,but as you age,you realise
that it's also important bieng with someone that you love&trust!
The best part of my day,now,is just before sleep,when my wife&I,
HOLD each other and I know that everything is done.Maybe it just comes with age.All of the petty jealousy feelings are mostly
gone.You start to realise that she wouldn't have stayed&put up
with so much crap,if she wanted someone else!Secondly

on't try
to change the other.If you do,the initial attraction,won't be there
anymore.Maybe I'm a romantic,but I have always believed that
everyone has ONE person that is meant for them.I know it's hard
to do,but just move on. Irish
P.S.I have,probably,ruined my "Bad Ass"image now,but that's the
way that I feel.Hope this helps!