Kali69 - don't make a big deal of it. Things like this happen and the real cause is that you have an uneducated male and you're not communicating effectively.

So don't have a serious discussion about it all - that puts presure on everyone. Just help him play with you next time - he'll enjoy seeing that. And when he gets inside you, tell him to wait while you get yourself off. There - that's got rid of all the embarrassment and the next lesson will be to encourage him to give you your orgasms first.

No big deal - nothing broken - you just have to take him in hand.....