My Dad was definitely my guide and mentor. For the first 18 years or so of my life he had a worsening problem with the drink that sorta left me as a teen with the impression that life was all about drinking and partying. When I turned 18 he saw the light and cleaned up his act. He joined AA and started a new path of meetings and new friends. I felt almost betrayed. I'd finally gotten old enough to drink and party with him and he wasn't there anymore. It took me awhile to realise what a great change he'd made. His example of helping others with similar curses and constantly planting small seeds of wisdom in my head as I tripped and stumbled down the thorny paths of my younger years made a world of difference in me. He never told me don't drink. He always said if you're going to, be careful and if you need me call me and I'm there. He allowed me to see that the party life wasn't all it appeared. In his latter years, we were the best of friends. I now cherish every second we spent together. He left me with a love for people, laughter and family. I'd give all I have for just one more fishing trip not catching any fish but laughing so hard my tummy hurt coming home. (the man talked to his bait Y'all) He was and is the most important person in my life and I miss him sorely. Father's Day, well just before will be 4 yrs now. I still hear him at times, especially when I talk to my kids. I get chills when I hear his voice come from my mouth, but then I'm proud too. I can't think of another I'd want to sound like.

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