I totally agree with huntersgirl. You're still very young, Chinese Pussy, so you really notice the physical signs of aging and are turned off by them, it appears. As you get older, I think, you will see beyond that...you will see, hopefully, the sexiness of people who truly ARE sexy even though they are over 25 and look it. You will, as huntersgirl, said, find that it isn't so much your ages but the amount of connection between you and another person that will determine whether you are turned on by the person and will want to be with them.

I'm 12 years older than my fiance, and I must admit that I am concerned that one day he will wake up and think, "Who the heck is this old lady by my side?" Hopefully he will always see the inner me and continue to find it attractive. Five years ago I spent the summer dating a guy who was 29 years younger than I; we got along famously and the sex was great. Plus, he was the one calling me all the time, not the other way around. So...even if a person is "older," you can hit it off and enjoy each other in most every way.

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