I'd be hard put to describe what is a good French kiss to me. I can tell you, though, that I can't stand if a guy is too aggressive with his tongue and tries, especially when we're first just starting to get warmed up, to stick his tongue down my throat. I dated a guy who is very tall (6'5") and had a very long tongue. He'd try to ram that thing down my throat and just about make me gag. I hated it, and I really wasn't sure how to tell him to not do it, because I know he thought he was a fantastic kisser.

I'd say to be gentle at first and get bolder with your tongue as you both get hotter; it's almost like a dance between your tongue and hers.

Sorry I couldn't be more articulate about it!

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