This was a good question and good feedback. I tend to like to lay back and kind of watch, but it seems so natural to use my hands to push her hair back or to gently guide. But it was good to hear from you ladies. I think sometimes my wife is inclined to "go along with me" and not necessarily tell me her feelings. In a way that's nice of her, but I'd really like to know what pleases her.

Since Pixies, I've gained a lot of insight from you laides sharing your thoughts on things. Thanks. I think it helps me be a better lover for her.