okay...will admit to a certain fondness of how should i say...ah yes...blowjobs...but that raises another question...I have a phobia of the mouthful and have never actually allowed it to happen so any advice on how to deal with the "first time" would be much appreciated.

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"I blame my mother for my poor sex life. All she told me was, 'the man goes on top and the woman underneath'. For three years my husband and I slept on bunk beds."