hey

i am no expert on this as my ex and i just broke up a few weeks ago and it was a long distance relationship.

she was pressuring me to marry her this jseptember but we only got together last september. i felt that i didnt know her well enough even though i wanted to marry her, seeing her once a month was painful eventhough we chatted every night.

it is hard to feeel conmfortable marring ap erson after only a long distance relationship.

i was planning to get a job in her area for a year or two and see how it developed from there.

my advice

as you have the option of going to school there, if you love him go for it.

about the free milk, get your own place and let him know you wont move in together until you are both married, you can allways change your mind later as things progress.

if you love him dont give up that easy, true fullfilling love is hard to find.

i also understand his concern about financial stability, concert tickets is one thing but buying a house and raising a family is another. io also have that fear but if me and my so understand the limitations of our salaries and work together for our family then we can go ahead, but do feel as though i am shortchanging my so as i cant provide the same sandard of living i grew up in to my so and future children.

any way dont let true love get away, it is not that easy to find