Blaze...

I lived in a marriage for far too long and went months without sex.. in my case tho.. it was my doing.. for reasons I didn't understand at the time.

Men (no matter what THEY say) are some of the most complex animals on this planet. They deal with outside stressors much differently than the rest of us.. and they tend to internalize it when they have it.

For the most part, men are raised to believe that the weight of (their) world rests only on their shoulders. Because of the stress that causes they silently allow it to effect the rest of their life... often without giving a clue to their partner.. Not only does this often cause a lack of sexual desire but it is also a leading cause of death.... it takes its toll.

My advice to you is to show him that you love him, that you respect him, and that you need him in more than just sexual ways. I have no doubt that you already to this, but it might be that whatever stressors he has in his life cloud his ability to see it. Spend time pampering him.. attempt (even in the smallest ways) to lighten his load.

I wish you well.. Hugs..